Different Wiring?

I am currently being enlightened about the makeup of a woman - and i'm not talking about something created by l'oreal. i'm reading a book put out by john eldredge and his wife, stasi. john wrote a popular book on manhood, called Wild at Heart, and this is its companion.
the thesis of the book is that every woman is seeking the answer to this question as they live out their lives: am i lovely? as the expression of the beauty of the image of God, women seek to redeem the beauty they were created with as the crown jewel of creation.
this is an interesting book and i know my fiancee agrees with much of its arguement. i will press on for now and keep you updated as i find out why so many of the thoughts that go through rhianon's head have never entered my own.